Friday, December 16, 2005

Breaking Up Is Hard To Do

Sigh. Oh, woah is Ethan. As he nears his 19 month birthday, he has to endure a major breakup. This breakup will leave him yearning for weeks to come, pining for his lost love... his pacifier.

The rule with our kids has always been that 'fiers are for naps and bedtime. Occasionally, the car if we're on a long trip. But that's it. Ethan has developed a stronger attachment to his 'fiers than Abby ever did. He made up his own little name for them - "bawa." He comforts himself in the crib by rubbing the pacifier on his forehead. The "bawas" are his friend. But, enough is enough, it is time. Bye bye, "bawa". Ethan's a big boy now!

Today, we removed all of the pacifiers from sight. We put him down for his nap sans "bawa." He cried for a few minutes, and then we haven't heard from him since. Nighttime will probably be more difficult. But, we're not taking any steps backward by giving him the pacifier. It's Ethan's first breakup. Hopefully he'll move beyond it soon. ;)


2 comments:

Jennifer said...

I cannot believe that you are treating my godson with such heartlessness! Didn't you know that the original lyrics were "All You Need is Bawa"? It's because of people like you that they got watered down to "All You Need is Love." Shame! Shame!

That being said, do you mind coming down to Roanoke at some point to transition Allison away from hers?

the quists said...

Trista, I love the pictures! I finally have been able to catch up on my blog reading...I love and miss you all so much!!!
xoxox
Tracy :)